A Note on Language

While the two traditional options, Bar or Bat Mitzvah, have worked for the majority of young Jews for the past fifty years, there has been recent discussion and movement around how to make this Jewish right of passage more accessible to young people who don’t identify within the gender binary (i.e. as male or female). In keeping with the Jewish value of b’tzelem elohim (being created in the Divine image), TBE is proud to offer a third option for those who want it: a Brit Mitzvah (covenant of the commandment). The Brit Mitzvah ceremony contains all of the same elements as the Bar or Bat Mitzvah, but with a special focus on using non-gendered language in reference to the young person, such as when they are called up to the Torah. On our website, we will be using the plural B’nai Mitzvah or the abbreviation B’ Mitzvah to refer to all three ceremonies.

TBE's B' Mitzvah Handbook

Interested in learning a little more about the specifics of becoming a B' Mitzvah at TBE? Our B' Mitzvah Handbook is a great place to start! From information about the study process to how to plan your event, it contains useful information about the whole experience. And if you don't find what you're looking for there, just get in touch! We'd be happy to answer any questions you might have.

Interested in having a B' Mitzvah at TBE? Have questions about what it all entails? Send us a message and Abby Halpern (Director of Kadima Beth El) will be in touch.